"SIGNS!" What are they? To me, signs are evidence of our loved ones continued love and existence. They are subtle reminders that not only is love eternal but so are we. When your loved one transitions you may start experiencing these "ADC's (After Death Communication) better known as "Signs." They may come in many different forms such as a butterfly, birds, dragonflies, feathers, coins, song, cloud formations, number sequences, scent, even "feeling" your loved ones presence. There is no end to their creativity on how to get our attention. There is not "One Sign Fits All" meaning, that each spirit knows just how to get your attention and what will connect you to them. Some receive feathers and some do not, so don't get discouraged if you do not get a "specific" sign that others get.
You will notice that your signs are in sync with your thoughts! Meaning, that they come at the most synchronistic time. You may be thinking about your anniversary and then hear the song that you danced to, or find a coin on the year you were married. This is how you know that it is a sign because "normally" the thought will proceed the sign and then the sign will follow. Carl Jung coined the term "synchronicity" and he put it like this: "Synchronicity is a concept, which holds that events are "meaningful coincidences" if they occur with no casual relationship yet seem to be meaningfully related."
Carl Jung was a psychologist in the early 1900's. One day he had a female patient on his couch telling him about a dream she had the night before. IN HIS WORDS: "She had an impressive dream the night before, in which someone had given her a golden scarab — a costly piece of jewelry. While she was still telling me this dream, I heard something behind me gently tapping on the window. I turned round and saw that it was a fairly large flying insect that was knocking against the window-pane from outside in the obvious effort to get into the dark room. This seemed to me very strange. I opened the window immediately and caught the insect in the air as it flew in. It was a scarabaeid beetle, or common rose-chafer (Cetonia aurata), whose gold-green colour most nearly resembles that of a golden scarab. I handed the beetle to my patient with the words, "Here is your scarab." In my humble opinion, this event happened in order for Jung to coin this most serendipitous real concept, knowing that many "are" and "will" be experiencing this.
So, I am all about helping and/or assisting others understand that their loved ones do not die but return to their natural form (which is spirit) and still have the ability to reach out to us and let us know of their continued existence. I know this because for over five years I have a beautiful ongoing communication/bond with my loved one who has transitioned. I/we have been sharing our story in hopes that it will help others validate their own experience and give them hope along their journey into the afterlife. So here are a few links that I will highlight to direct you to pages, websites and/or information.
Of course, my story, about my ongoing communication with my loved one can be found on Amazon right here You can also go to the "gallery" page on this site and see some of the signs that I have received. I also have a facebook page titled "The Day Before: Eternal Bonds into the Afterlife" in which I talk about signs and grief daily...just click here. If you go to my "Links" page (on this site) you will see several facebook pages where you can share your signs or just peek in to see what others are experiencing. A great book to help you identify your signs is authored by Lyn Ragan. This is also under my "Links" tab. It is titled "Signs From the Afterlife." My first sign from Sam is featured in this book. These are just a few of many resources to get you started in identifying signs from your loved one.
Remember to always thank your loved one for the signs because then they know that you received it and will send you more of the same thing since you connect those certain signs to them. Remember too, that if this is NOT your belief then your loved one will respect that and not intrude. It may take awhile for you to squash all your doubts and truly believe what you are receiving is real. The best advice that I can tell you it to listen to your heart, trust your loved one and most importantly trust in LOVE...it never dies...and neither do we. May God bless!
Written August 6th 2018 @ 4:44 pm
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Hello, my name is Sheila Jenkins and I am the author of "The Day Before: Eternal Bonds into the Afterlife. I am the mother of two daughters and grandmother of five. I love music, dancing and lots of laughter. After working in the beautiful Shenandoah National Park for 35 years I decided to leave and I am currently a server at the Mimslyn Inn in Luray, Virginia. I worked in the Shenandoah National Park for 35 years where I met Sam and my journey began, which led me to write our story. I plan to continue on my journey and help others discover the divine love within and process their grief.